• “Passion is your greatest love.  Passion is the thing that will help you create the highest expression of your talent.  Passion; interest; it’s not the same thing!  Are you really going to go to your sweetie and say: ‘Marry me!  You’re interesting!’?”
    Larry Smith, TedxUW

    If you have never heard Larry Smith speak, then I suggest you click on the link above immediately.  He has a way with words that seems to stir up that animal spirit inside of all of us.  It’s a pleasure to watch his performance both because of the content and his mastery of oral communication.  As Charlie Munger famously says: “I have nothing more to add.”

  • Grind: Verb — Grind out; to play tightly and win consistently; playing in a manner that minimizes variance.”
    Definition from pokerzone.com.

    Romance sells.  Whether it be the boy wonder who makes millions playing poker, or the fearless founder who makes a billion dollar company from nothing.  The romance, the allure, the dream of making it big from the drab boring existence of the average sells.  And why shouldn’t it?  Everybody wants to be rich; everybody wants to be famous; everybody wants to believe that they are part of the select few that can achieve what has alluded millions before them.  And perhaps some of them can, but unfortunately most of them won’t.  And it’s not because they haven’t read all the books, haven’t listened to all the experts, or haven’t had the innate talent that is needed, but rather they won’t make it because they don’t know how to grind.

    Grind doesn’t sell.  Grinding is boring.  Grinding isn’t fun.  Nobody dreams of grinding their way to the top — which is exactly why you rarely hear about it in best sellers.  Only those who have been through the grind really understand what it takes to get to the top; they also understand why so many fail.  There’s one kind of grind I’m familiar with and it deals with research (poker really isn’t my thing).  Sometimes I’m in awe of the breakthrough idea of other researchers that generates a 10x speed-up, or a 5x memory reduction, but what’s hidden from my view is the magic that made it happen.  After being in graduate school for a while, I think I’m starting to get it.  It works like this (for my sub-field):

    1. Get/refine idea.
    2. Write code.
    3. Run some experiments.
    4. See how it fails miserably (and hopefully learn something from it).
    5. Rinse and repeat.

    That’s it.  (Occasionally, I get a massive performance increase but usually that only happens when there’s a bug in my code.)  What I usually end up with is something totally different than my original idea (or at least perversely mutated).  And because of this, the performance usually improves.  Of course this is all hidden when someone just seems that I have a top publication on my CV.  What people miss is the excessive number of iterations I go through to figure out a good solution to the problem.  What they miss is the grind.

    It’s surprising how much you can learn from poker.  Unfortunately, most endeavors don’t have such clear cut rules.  But a good lesson we can learn is that no matter what mountain you decide to climb, grinding is the best way to get to the top.

     

  • After being in school for more than 20 years, I realized that most things aren’t that difficult.  They just seem difficult because you haven’t learned them yet (alternatively, because they are taught in a poor manner).  As Charlie Munger always says, if you have the fundamental mental models from the various important disciplines, then you probably have 90% of what you need to know for worldly wisdom.  The hard part is learning these mental models from a wide variety of disciplines.  Most people don’t have access (or time) to take undergrad level courses across a wide variety of subject areas.  Moreover, since many courses are taught so poorly, there is little or no motivation to learn things properly through traditional lecture-style learning.

    Reading, of course, is one of the most important ways to acquire knowledge but that comes with its own problems.  Figuring out what to read, how to get answers when the text is not sufficient and a general methodology for self-study by reading is definitely not straight-forward or easy.  It you have this figured out, you probably are well ahead of the curve.  However, for those of us still developing that methodology, the interweb (unlike in many cases) provides the solution: Khan Academy.

    The site started by former hedge fund analyst with degrees from MIT and Harvard Business School, Sal Khan, makes short online videos teaching the fundamentals in a wide variety of subjects (e.g. mathematics, finance, biology, computer science, physics, current events…) — just the type of place for one to start acquiring worldly wisdom.  I’ve been using it for the past half year or so (32k energy points!) and I’m really enjoying it.  I’ve been particularly interested in the finance related aspects as my two courses economics really didn’t explain everything I wanted to know about fractional reserve banking or collateral debt obligations.

    The beauty of the site is that Sal explains everything in simple terms, removing all the unnecessary fluff that usually gets attached when learning things formally in school.  He presents things in a more practical manner to give good intuition on the subject rather than drone on through formalities — and, trust me, I know a thing or two about unnecessary formalities (e.g. research papers).  His teaching style matches up with exactly how I believe most subjects (especially introductory courses) should be taught — focusing on understanding concepts, rather than focusing on all the little details.  It’s exactly the kind of place I would like to start when learning a new subject area.  What it is not, however, is a substitute for in-depth study.  To achieve a more useful level of knowledge, it takes much more than watching a few videos.  Actually doing some work, is usually a good starting place but that’s another subject entirely…

    Learning just got a whole lot easier because of one man, his tablet and the interweb.  I’m incredibly skeptical of the yet unfulfilled revolution to education that technology promises to bring, but Khan Academy is definitely starting to turn the tide.

  • “No doubt the first requirement for becoming strong at go is to like it, like it more than food or drink, and a second requirement is the desire to learn.  A third requirement is to study it, using proper methods, patiently, little by little, without cramming… Rome was not built in a day.  It may not take years of devoted study to the exclusion of all else, but it does take effort piled upon effort to become strong at go.  The only ones who fall by the wayside are those, be they gifted or otherwise, who forget the word ‘effort’.” (emphasis mine)
    Kageyama, Lessons in the Fundamentals of Go

    Replace “Go” with any other skill and you have a fundamental law of “getting strong at things”.  It’s funny how technology tricks us into thinking that we can learn things faster — all of a sudden.  It gives us a sense that facts somehow are the same as knowledge, or that an almost endless encyclopedia is a replacement for an discerning mind, or more importantly that effort is no longer a requirement for getting strong.  Not everything is instant, not everything is digital, and not everything is easy.  Just the way I like it.

  • “I compare the process to becoming a vampire, your old self dies in a sad and painful way, but then you come out the other side with immortality, super strength and a taste for human blood.”
    Jonathan Coulton, quoted in a blog post on Coding Horror

    This is the coolest quotes on parenthood I’ve heard.  It’s hard to imagine what it’s like becoming a vampire, just as I’m sure it’s hard to imagine what it’s like to become a parent (not that Hollywood hasn’t tried to make either into a movie).  I guess it’s one of those experiences that is just so hard to describe until you’ve experienced it, like falling in love or having a close brush with death (again both topics romanticized by Hollywood).  Like turning into a vampire, parenthood probably isn’t one of those things that you should take lightly.  Even though it’s hard for us non-parent youngsters to understand, it’s nice to know that there still exist some things in life we can look forward to (and deeply dread).

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