“Insanity: doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results.”
Albert Einstein

We want things to be different.  We want to be in better shape; we want to be more social; and of course, we want to be wealthier.  But let me be the first to tell you: if you’re not making any meaningful progress towards your goal, it’s likely because you’re doing the same thing you’ve always done.  And why not?  It’s gotten you this far, which isn’t so bad.  Maybe you’re in decent shape, you have lots of friends and you’re pretty well off.  Except that you want things to be different.  So you keep doing the same things you’ve always done.  Talk about insanity.